Who is shaming other people and what the f--k have they have done that gives them the right to do that? If your friends are are trying to shame you, they are not your friends. If they are strangers, you don't owe them a thing and they can be held in contempt. Any movement that is trying to shame people into certain behaviors is not a good one. Only a masochist or an idiot would want to belong to such a thing. Good people persuade, they don't shame because it is not respectful.