The theoretical left must have the family destroyed, and friendship too. How can we have a completely equitable society if people favor their families and friends? It's impossible. If someone is white, it's quite likely that most of their friends and family are white, and those are the people they will pick over others every time because if you don't favor your friends they're not your friends, and if you don't favor your family, what kind of an asshole are you? For the theoretical left, there can be no favoritism, even though it's totally a human thing to care more about your family and friends than a bunch of frickin' strangers. That's why everyone must renounce their families and friends, and pledge allegiance to the wonderful whatever it is that will commence after the make believe revolution. That way we can all suffer alone, equally.