I’m amazed that there are other people who would allow some cooked-up theory to qualify their relationships with others. It’s like a game where you get strokes for being the most woke. If you are taking people as individuals, and you kinda have to in real life, your relationship with each will vary based on a host of other factors besides race, gender, and level of victimhood. And whatever happened to the word “friend”? Are you fighting the Central Powers or the Axis Powers?