I found the bit about the parents of the young man troubling. If I was them and read this article I would take it as a big ol' "F--k you", and if I was the young man I would take it the same way as directed to his parents. If this fellow is the catch that he appears to be he could have another woman tomorrow, but his mom and dad are for his entire life. Turning them into an enemy is flat out stupid, particularly when you intend to carry THEIR genetic material/grandchild in your body. If the guy doesn't get along with his parents, that's a consideration in itself, and an indicator of what you have to look forward to. How a man treats his mother is a good rule to see how you'll be treated. This essay displays a complete lack of understanding for human nature, or it's just made up.