I don't see any of these as being a relationship killer on their own as long as no one else is available. For a lot people of people it will boil down to putting up with several of these qualities in a person, possibly for a lifetime, or being alone for a lifetime. Dating and even forming a serious relationship involves a lot of tradeoffs since no one can have a perfect SO built for them. Everyone isn't going into this with the same looks, money, social connections or other advantages, and many will have to settle for whatever they can get, flaws and all. It's not fair, but that's how it is. There should be more essays about how to deal with a lover's issues rather than just staying away from the person.