I can never understand how otherwise sensible women can be strongly attracted to an handsome bad boy, and succumb to that attraction without realizing that many other women are also attracted to that fellow for the same reasons. He can’t get together with that gal who is head over heals over for him tonight because he has to care for his sick grandmother? Oh, he’s caring for a woman tonight, but it’s not his granny. He is engaging in bad boy behavior, which includes lying, cheating, and spreading his lovin’ around. He’s a player, because he can be. I’ve seen tall, slim, guys with good teeth and nice head of hair that looked great in a leather jacket have the sex life of a sultan. All it takes is a good line of bull and keeping everyone’s name straight. Women who want a solid relationship frequently think that they can change this behavior in a guy, but all they are going to change is the number of notches on his bedpost. He will change them as well, usually into someone with an STI and a broken smartphone screen. Bad boys are generally bad people, but other guys accept no responsibility for what they do in their sex lives, since that is supposed to be a personal choice and not subject to judgement. They can only look on in admiration.