How many of these men who are telling men how to be men have their own sons to raise? That's where you really learn how to be a man, from your father. And if dad isn't around, you learn it from TV and on the street I guess, or from the assorted men floating through your mother's life. Leftists should start a charity to help raise fatherless boys. They could call it "Big Comrades". But leftists don't like charities, because they would rather whine and protest than actually do some work to solve the problem.