Anything done compulsively is probably going to be a problem, particularly if it affects your relationship with other people. I'm big into physical exercise, but even it has drawbacks if you push it too far. My point was that all guys, gay and straight, like porn. I'm sure that there are some unsavory aspects to the industry, but apparently there are some unsavory aspects to the Hollywood movie industry too, if #metoo is to be believed, and they should be because the casting couch has been around for over a hundred years. I prefer not to think of how they make my breakfast sausage either. .